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WHAT TO DO WHEN SOMEONE DIES
At some time during our lives, death will touch and affect us all. While no one wants to dwell on the subject, some understanding of what occurs can help us prepare for its eventuality.
• WHO DO I CONTACT?
Whether a death occurs at home, in hospital or in a public place, the first person who should be contacted is a doctor. If a doctor is not available, then the police must be contacted who then arrange for the coroner to attend.
The second person to contact, besides family members and friends, is the funeral director.
• WHY HAVE A FUNERAL?
A funeral is for those who are living. It is a celebration of the life of the person who died not the death. It gives an opportunity to share in that celebration and the chance to say goodbye. Funerals can strengthen family ties and responsibilities, reinforce beliefs about life and death, and often assist the bereaved family and friends to accept the death, express their emotions and encourage them as they prepare for the future.
Decisions to make include:
- burial or cremation;
- when and where you would like the funeral to be held;
- religious or celebrant service;
- music, eulogy, poems, readings, flowers, pallbearers, photo for service books;
- family or friends involvement in the service;
- RSL, Masonic or other organisations that may be involved;
- what clothing you want for the deceased or items placed in the coffin;
- viewing of the deceased, this can play an important part in the resolution of your grief;
- catering after the service or gathering back at the family home;
- placement of ashes or monumental work for the grave
Millingtons are here to help. Our professionally trained staff will take care of every detail for you, regardless of your requirements - no request is too big or too small.
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